EDITORIAL GAYLES.TV .- Micromachisms, lesbophobias and other subtle, tired and repetitive aggressions sometimes take the form of compliments or compliments, comments that end up being wolves in sheep's clothing, low blows that hurt like a past bull and that we do not even notice when they are sneaked into us .
I refer to the typical topic of the un-feminine appearance of lesbians, the descriptions of ugly, left, trucker, firefighter. The innocent and supposedly well-meaning question “Are you really a lesbian? But if you put on makeup, you wear a dress, a skirt, you use a hair straightener ... " So apparently there are women who are "too pretty to be lesbians." Or the other version, that of "Hey, it does not matter who you sleep with, but with how beautiful you are you could get more out of it, be a little more flirtatious."
The image, profile, appearance and temperament of lesbian women have been for centuries the worst of the worst: lesbians envy men and their attributes, we are ugly, we do not groom ourselves, we neglect clothes, hair and thank you that we wash. The collective imagination reserves a gray, denigrating and unattractive space for lesbians, there is a social inability, regardless of the cultural level or ideology, to understand lesbianism simply as a sexual, emotional or affective option.
But really What lies behind that conception? For in a way it condemns it to an option that dispenses with the patriarchal model, which does not need a man to be. Because at the other end of the topic LGTBI is the image of the gay who is supposed to be handsome, sensitive, with pasta, he takes care of himself, goes to the gym, arranges himself, uses cosmetics, takes care of his house and knows how to cook. Let's take it from "Are you sure he is not gay? He's so handsome and so charming that I'm sure his aunts do not go. " is another stereotype that insults both gays and heterosexuals.
It is so obvious everything that seems to lie that we continue falling in the trap, it is so indecent that it is not understood that we do not reveal or what is worse, that when in public one talks about the masculinity of the lesbians, some they are justified bringing up to famous or known that "in spite of being lesbians" are pibones. Painful.
And to end the topic is the "false lesbians", the advertising that start comments like "you'll tell me what bars are going" or "they are actresses, they really are not." Or worse still those of the lesbian porn that are difficult to assume without a gastric protector but they are better because basically they serve to feed the masculine fantasies. Yes, gay porn is a repertoire of bronzed bodies, cared for, bundled, what abounds more abound!
Stereotypes are, besides cruel, false and absurd, weigh as a slab on everyone, whether we are gay, lesbian, transsexual or bisexual, of whom it is said that they do not define themselves because they are incapable of assuming their homosexuality.
What's up? That all heterosexual men are dirty, left, i
gnorantes and look beer belly? And they, the straight women, are all super feminine, they manage, they are beautiful of death? Obviously not.
It is not a question of denying anything, of course there are women with a more masculine appearance and manners, whether they are lesbians or not and of course they are within their right to be one and their attractiveness will depend on who judges them, which for tastes were made. colors. And obviously there are gay men of all kinds and fur, handsome and ugly, delicate and rough, careful and sloppy.
The phenomenon of visibility of celebrities and celebrities is contributing to overthrow some of these stereotypes, but we run the risk of falling into another trap, that "famous but attractive buns" and those of battle, those of the street, those of the bars of aunts, no.
It is important not to forget that we are entitled to our image, it is important to denounce the topic whenever we meet withl, it is important to finally claim that we are diverse, different and that nothing and nobody should label us because, after all, the only thing we share is and with nuances, the sexual option.
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