EDITORIAL.- Alan He was only 17 years old, too much suffering for so few years. Despite being a minor, he had managed to get a magistrate to authorize him to change his name on the DNI. He also had the absolute support of his entire family. This was going to be the first Christmas lived according to his identity, the first in a long time in which joy would reign in his house, the party for his newly released identity document. And it has turned out to be the last. Alan has not resisted the pressure, Alan has committed suicide.
In a statement to the association of families of transsexual minors Chrisallys, the mother of Allan wrote: "I feel in my soul to have to give this terrible and sad news. Our son Alan has taken his short life away from the 17 years. He could not with the pressure of society and has left us forever. Thank you very much for all the support received ”.
Who has failed Alan? The school community has failed. He suffered bullying at the institute where he 
he studied his studies, which led to a depression that required admission to the Hospital Clínico de Barcelona. When leaving the center changed of institute, but also there was victim of harassment by its condition of transsexual. Apparently, the management team of the center and the family had planned a meeting after the Christmas holidays to "deal with the situation" that was taking place in Alan's environment. Too late.
Since the association Chrisallys has issued a statement in which it is reported: " There are no words to accompany this pain nor to express indignation, frustration and shame before administrations that never arrive in time, that always go behind of the necessities of the infancy and transsexual adolescence. We will continue to fight for society to respect our daughters and sons, but Alan will no longer serve him. "
Do not fall into the error of accusing the adolescents who harassed Alan, because his behavior is nothing but the result of the education they receive in the family environment and, in some cases, even in school. His schoolyard bravado is the paradigm of a society that still today marginalizes, insults, harasses and overthrows the different, the weird, who does not square in the narrow margin of their expectations.
Dismay to hear them speak
of tolerance. No one was valid enough to tolerate Alan. We must make an effort to tolerate them, to those who instill hatred in homes, to those who do not use the classroom to integrate and educate in difference and diversity, to those who do not rigorously apply a law that was approved so that this did not happen again. We want schools free from transphobia and bullying schoolr. We want teachers who fulfill their duty to educate and anticipate these situations before it is too late. We want someone to ask for forgiveness. But above all we want this never, ever, to be repeated.
Tomorrow 27 Sunday, at 17 hours will be held a simultaneous concentration in 8 Spanish cities under the motto "The transphobia NOS kills I am alsoAlan". I hope the attendance is massive. DEP, Alan.
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Good evening Alan…. my child .., our child, you are one more member of my family, of our great family of transsexual minors, therefore, I want you to know that you have taken a piece of our hearts wrapped in strength, that strength ... that we deposit each day in you, those heroes (because you have to be very brave), that the first thing he does every day is a fight with himself, with his fears, experiences, illusions, hopes ...,
Then, which are not a few battles, you start a medical, family (in some cases) educational, work, social journey, justifying yourself before each and every one of them, to claim an unbreakable right that every human being has: your IDENTITY, that which You always have to be clarifying, reaffirming, confirming to the fucking gallery, that one, which only justifies itself and shows you its imposed heteronormativity ... as the valid and only one, sustained most of the time by some castrating and vain prejudices that have triggered your departure….
Today Alán, my child ... our child ... you have dried our souls, but your strength ... remains here among us and I promise you that we will use it to continue fighting in this absurd and unfair battle that they have imposed on us, I know that the way It is long… .but I assure you that we will not give up in our efforts to pave and reclaim the path that is beginning to be executed for you.
My deepest condolences to your parents and family.
DEP my boy… our boy Alán !!
LET THE FIGHT CONTINUE ,,, !!!!!!! BY ALAN…. FOR ALL THOSE WHO SEEK THEIR ... WAY ... MAY REST IN PEACE .. ALAN ,,, !!!!!!!!!!!!
FROM, MONTEVIDEO .. URUGUAY
This can not continue to happen, we are spiritual beings and we must live conscious of that, we are the active presence of God manifested in each of us, we just have to believe it and nothing and nobody can stop us, Alan returned to the source and will return with more strength.
I'm very sorry about what happened .... from Guayaquil, Ecuador
I regret the circumstances experienced by Alan and his decision.
To tell society that a child is owed respect from birth, it is not anyone's toy or child.
Health.
What a shame that human biodiversity is not respected, individual freedom always respecting where the rest begins. Always with prejudices, less spending on independentist advertisements, on Christmas campaigns in unnecessary expenses and more investment in educators and psychologists in schools to ensure a good formation of our future, which are young people. A shame
Dear family, sadness, anger and pain invade me. Why so few have been able to see Alan's heart, his smile, his strength. I don't know what to tell you !! I do not want to give you words of consolation, nothing and no one will be able to fill the void that Alan left. I will tell you, however, that this family, mine and myself, are here to help. We love you. A hug and a kiss, from the heart.
And those who did bullying are also responsible. That of blaming the "young" because they belong to a homophobic society prevents those who act badly from being held accountable. The authorities, the whole of society and the funny "boys" and bullies ARE RESPONSIBLE AND WILL BEAR WITH THIS DEATH whether they like it or not.
How sad that so much intolerance and ignorance leads to taking those decisions and suffering, rests in peace Alan.
I am outraged to read this. The students who harassed Alan, if they had 17 years. At that age an individual knows how to distinguish between what is right and what is wrong. The school is as compliant as they are, because at the moment this happens they must categorically expel the stalker students and put in place exemplary measures so that it does not happen again. You can NOT consent to punishment and punishment.
You are absolutely right, Lucìa, I am a teacher and unfortunately, the behavior of the students, protected and protected by their parents, wreaks havoc with the weakest. All year round, every day, we work continuously, with different spaces on these terrible issues, the result ??? Negative!!! They continue with the same attitude. Because?? Because unfortunately they are already bad, they enjoy the suffering of others, and since they know perfectly well that they cannot be punished, much less expelled, they continue their course. The authorities fill their mouths talking about children !!! What hypocrites, it is what they care less about !!! Here we are. Innocents like Alan are the ones who pay. Sorry Alan for this sick society,
that neither recognizes values nor possesses feelings ...
I am very sorry for what has happened .. I am a lesbian girl and I know what it is like to go through cases like this I am 26 years old… but I don't know where I can get the strength to move on .. I just happen to many people who insulted me and treated me badly… .and from here I tell the family that I am very sorry I was very young, a life ahead !! But this is how we go in the century that we are in ... that nobody respects us and we have the right to do what we want with our lives, as people that we are ... a huge kiss wherever I am and taking care of yours ... kisses
My sincerest condolences to the family of Alan, I know from experience that the loss of a person is very painful and more so a person so young with all his life ahead. There are not enough words to even calm the pain a little, but from here I want to convey to Alan's family and to all transsexual children all my support. It seems to be a lie that in the 21st century these things continue to happen, that there is no remedy for this terrible thing called bullying, in this society in which we live, people do not have the right to express themselves freely even if they make us believe that if we have that right and I think this should be very different. I just want to say one more thing, and I hope that things change someday and that there will not have to happen again something as horrible as the suicide of a person. From Valencia I send you all my support, a kiss.
If you keep thinking that this happens because you have to educate someone, we get it clear. The only problem of education is the system itself. You can not tell a child that we are all the same looking at a blackboard and forcing him to sit at a desk. The world is very big, TEACH YOU COJONES. Already it is well of such hypocrisy, it seems a lie that we are all making blind in a problem that is not the teacher's responsibility, but of us for sending a child to a place where he is not educated IN THE LIFE SAME. When we are taught to truly love in a school, to be who we want to be TRUE professionally, and encourage us to know the world SHOW THE WORLD, there we will be educating someone.
Those children who mistreat these people are the son of a father who is unkempt and bad people
URGENT PRESS RELEASE
The CLINICAL TRANSITIONAL ASSOCIATION OF MADRID expresses its absolute condemnation, rejection and rejection of the last social murder of a transsexual person in Spain.
Alan could no longer withstand discriminatory pressure while school authorities do not take tough measures to end this violence and this chauvinist and patriarchal TERROR that lives in our SCHOOLS still.
There is no hard discipline regime in the Centers, which facilitates the urgent expulsions of the School Stalker Centers
Always act late and bad when not looking the other way and underestimating this excessive school violence
LGBT people are innocent victims who as lambs are taken to the slaughterhouse of school bullying and homophobic and transphobic labor
We are the victims in many cases that we have to take the bags and change of Center while the stalkers are left without disciplinary measures and unpunished
I myself have been a victim of homophobic harassment in the Madrid public health system, as a worker, and I had to change hospitals to escape the harassing persecution.
Even today, I continue to suffer from these homophobic labor pressures, which have led me to make 15 days end with heart angina, after years of labor suffering
We have asked President Cifuentes for a protocol in the CAM against homophobic and transgressive workplace harassment, which includes for the first time interconstate transfers by the ultraconservative climate in Public Health.
BUT THERE IS NO RESPONSE
THERE IS NEVER ANSWER TO THESE RIGHTEOUS AND CIVILIZED DEMANDS while we are taking our lives little by little
WE ASK ALL LGTB ORGANIZATIONS to convene an urgent state demonstration to demand SCHOOL EMERGENCY measures before the MINISTRY OF EDUCATION.
NEITHER A SOCIAL MURDER MISTER BY HOSPITAL SCHOOL AND LABOR HOMÓFOBO AND TRANSFOBO
Andrés de la Portilla Garcia
PRESIDENT OF CLINICAL TRANSEXUALITY OF MADRID
Tssss .. Too bad for the Spanish community… .. Strength his family and well a new fight… Against the intolerance of that country….
What a pity that we are so advanced in some things and for others so extremely behind, these things have to happen to you, there is no right and the punishment would have to be exemplary no more harassment, where you are, keep fighting for your dreams Alan
I am very sorry for what has happened ... Greetings from Tenerife
Here, I give my support to the family of Alan, that child of the smile, in which his kindness is seen. Little boy, you have been very strong, and you have had to endure a lot of pain. The cowards and murderers are all those, who do not know how to love and respect ... to the people who leave the norm of the system ... an embrace for your family and for you little one.
I do not know why people are so unconscious in not understanding that people have feelings and although we are from the glbti community we do not hurt anyone because we are human beings that we make mistakes like everyone and apart from this I am very sorry for what step with ALAN my more sense pesame to the families att ELIANA of Ecuador city of Manta
He fought bravely to achieve what we all always seek, to respect him; in the end, sadness and ridicule, were stronger. I feel very much, as an integral part of the society of today, that we are not yet able, in these times, to know how to instill that respect in our children.
He regretted what had happened. Every day that passes we are worse people. It is a misfortune that we go backwards are bad the human being is the worst of Nature.
A sadness and a lot of desire to cry invades me at this moment dear Alan your struggle and the struggle of many of us will continue .. from Bolivia Santa Cruz my deepest condolences for Alan's family you were a fighter, enough of transphobia I know we managed to obtain our rights for the entire lgbt community and from you find out that that day you will enjoy with us ... God bless you little one
Educate ? To ONE children? Please change the laws you cannot say to 17-year-old children we cannot use the word children my son is 9 years old and he knows how to distinguish what it is to make fun of and what it is to be a good person is impotence rage my most sincere condolences to the family
Both the canvi de lleis is not enough. It is necessary to make the infants and young people aware of some lost values in the society as it is the respect and also it is the educator of the family. I am always sorry that misfortune has succeeded and I cannot pose remei.
God have mercy on the family, and have mercy on the people who made suicide possible for this child, physically and verbally abusing the boy Alan, Ignorance makes possible all these atrocities. There is only a bitter taste in reading this sad news, I speak for the child's mother, immersed in pain, forever.